2. don't top off. you don't know the gravity. on target or not?
7. don't. the trub will settle below the spigot after a good hour. cover that kettle.
place bucket screen on fermenter bucket. open spigot slowly, not full blast until you are sure it's not pulling any trub from around the spigot.
I think mine is around 200 micron. Bought it long ago.
when you start running off into the bucket screen, you will see how fast & easy it goes. if it starts to build up, and creep towards the outer edge of the screen, shut it off, let drain, spray out screen, wait another 15-20 min and go again. It probably just pulled a little trub from around the spigot. should be good to go full blast.
when spigot stops, tilt kettle to get some more. eventually the trub will start coming...let it. once the screen starts backing up, just dump the whole kettle bottom dregs in and put a bucket lid over the screen. Go have a beer and let gravity do it's magic. you will soon have a tight trub cake to discard.
BONUS...you will now need to adjust all your recipes at least 10% down to not overshoot your OG target. less water and grain in and more/higher beer out.