Usually, I plan partygyle using gravity points. (not O.G.) All the gravity points can be split into the two beers. (and even more if you fly sparge). as long as your first runnings are higher O.G. than your Big Beer pre-Boil gravity.
see this for gravity points explanation :
http://beersmith.com/blog/2015/01/30/calculating-original-gravity-for-beer-recipe-design/
how I do it is I plan for my big beer but with 50% more volume. Then I usually hit my gravity for the big beer. (First running only) (around 2/3 of the gravity points goes there) you have to plan a little more than usual also to have enough water for first runnings to be a full batch.
Then I use two batch sparge for the 2 penny, (the best Advice I have is pick one , either volume or gravity) you will have difficulty having the right volume AND gravity with the small beer. (the 1/3 gravity points left goes in the 2-penny)
I have done plenty and the 2 penny is always good and I always finish with 20L but the O.G. of the 2 penny is less important than the big beer for me. (if you want your exact O.G. AND volume, you could steel some worth from the big beer but IMO the big beer is a lot more valuable (I mostly do this when I barrel age))
You really need to jump and start doing it, don't over-engineer it the first time.
If you really want more Points in your second beer, you can add some more grains(2-row) and batch sparge longer (like another short mash) When I did a big tripel I hadded roasted barley in the sparge to make a session stout-ish as an example.
Also, plan for lower efficiency for your big beer, since you won't sparge.
I will try to find my speadsheet tha I usually use to plan that and share it. I'll have to translate it tough, so It might take a couple of days since I need to paint the house this weekend.
Party gyle is a lot of work and prep but its worth it.