@KegLand might find that interestingI was curious, and bought a few Duotight FC ball lock disconnects for testing. As others here, I found them to be really tight. It was nearly impossible to get them locked on to some posts. Looks like it depends on how far down the post poppet can be pushed, because connecting the Duotight without center pin was ok.
After some measuring vs CMB disconnects, I found out maybe the center pin is slightly too long. All other measures seeems to be identical.
I cut down the center pin (in the thick end) 0.5-0.7mm. Now, all combinations I have tested are ok. I have also lubed balls and locking ring to make it move more smooth.
So far, I'm quite happy with the (modified) Duotight FC's. Remains to see how long time they last.