Some simple experimentation with carboxylic acids you can buy at the LHBS (lactic, citric, tartaric, malic) and a pH meter will convince you pretty quickly that how tart something tastes is more a function of which acid is involved than the pH. Yes a lactic acid solution at pH 4 tastes more sour than one at 4.5 but a malic acid solution at pH 4 tastes much more sour than a lactic acid solution at pH 4. Thus I am suggesting that rather than blame the tart taste (which is an important part of the wheat beer profile) on the pH you might want to look at a different yeast strain in the hopes of finding one that produces a different acid spectrum and perhaps at the same time a higher finished pH. IMO you can't beat the Weihenstephan strain (Wyeast 3068 or White Labs equivalent).
Yeast have a preferred range of pH and will try to set their environment to that pH. If you add additional alkali to their wort they will just have to work harder to achieve the pH they want. This takes energy away from the production of alcohol, esters and phenolics and it has been noted that the yeast regulate pH pretty well irrespective of wort conditions. Thus I don't expect that buffering the wort is going to help much but this is based only on thinking about it a bit. I have never experimented with this.
Finally, lactate buffers well near the pK of lactic acid (3.86) so you could make a decent buffer out of a mix of lactic acid and lactate ion set for pH's up to about 4.86 (rule of thumb: pK ± 1.0).
Yeast have a preferred range of pH and will try to set their environment to that pH. If you add additional alkali to their wort they will just have to work harder to achieve the pH they want. This takes energy away from the production of alcohol, esters and phenolics and it has been noted that the yeast regulate pH pretty well irrespective of wort conditions. Thus I don't expect that buffering the wort is going to help much but this is based only on thinking about it a bit. I have never experimented with this.
Finally, lactate buffers well near the pK of lactic acid (3.86) so you could make a decent buffer out of a mix of lactic acid and lactate ion set for pH's up to about 4.86 (rule of thumb: pK ± 1.0).