How about taking some of that wort, about a half-liter, put in sanitized flask, add a bit more of a half-liter of RO water, and use that? You'll have to wait for the starter to finish, but I think your wort is much too high in OG to have just a single pack of yeast going.
You need a starter wort of about 1.040, so about 2/5 of a liter of wort, 3/5 of a liter of RO water. You could draw that wort off first and get your starter going after giving it a quick boil to sanitize it.
BTW, I always oxygenate my starters, and I'd suggest you do that too. About 30 seconds of bubbling should do it, after you boil and then cool.
And FWIW: When I do a starter, I always just pitch the starter, no crashing in the fridge, no decanting of the beer off the yeast, just right in. I usually try to time it so it goes in at 12-18 hours after beginning it.