I literally had this problem when I brewed back on 1 June.
I really freaked out because I didn't want to put off brew day, so I got really serious about determining whether or not the slap pack had been opened or not, without having to open the package.
I held it at an angle (like, a diamond instead of a square), and used both hands to squeeze from the top corner to the bottom corner to isolate the slap pack, and it's still really hard to determine if it's in there.
So after isolating it, I put it about knee level, angled it back towards me a bit and slapped the crap out of where it was isolated and hoped for the best. After slapping it, if you try to isolate it again you can sort of feel the collapsed empty pack. In about an hourish you should see the package itself swelling.
Edit: on a side note, with the yeast activated in the pack, that thing will almost look like it's ready to explode and will be very tight once it's activated.