I guess he went out happy? Hope he made these.

I’ve planted some pear and full size apple trees in places where I believe future owners of the property won’t be quick to chop them down. Maybe they’ll be there 100 years from now….He came, he left a mark, he left. I think that's all any of us could hope for.
Srsly, take a moment and think about that. What mark do you leave behind?
As he would want it.RIP Bracc. Don't know too many consciously working towards drinking(on a budget)... Just (almost) poured one out, then though "What a waste of beer", so I had one in his honor.
(as I understand by reading this thread, even native speakers and US citizens faced sometimes difficulties following his posts ;-)).
I hear all of that loud and clear. Life can be crazy sometimes. My uncle got hit by a car 5 weeks ago doing his morning walk, and still hasn't woken up, my mom has been given 2 months to live after fighting colon cancer for the last 5 years, and just found out Friday, that a former employee/coworker of ours committed suicide. Enjoy every moment with your loved ones.Ok so this is a weird one. Bracc's last post was on 4/2/23, I'm a little fuzzy but I think that we found that he passed on 4/3/23. If not that exact date, forgive me; but the weird part of this is, my husband's best friend (and a dear friend to me as well) passed very unexpectedly on 4/3/24. I didn't make the connection until today. No, I never met Bracc in person, but we had a great friendship on here with mutual interests and lots of conversations.
Maybe not really a connection, but something to make me think about this fleeting thing that is life. I swear only yesterday I was 26, single and (considered) adult for the first time in my life. Now I'm 56, worried about random aches and pains, and friends I've had for years are slipping away. Another dear friend is fighting prostate cancer, his wife is dealing with MS, my own husband has had some melanoma scares. But still we go on.
I learned a long time ago, and it's maybe not the best way to be, but I try to live for the moment. The more we worry about the future and what it may hold for ourselves and our loved ones, the more we miss what is happening in the present. Cherish what you have today, for it may be gone tomorrow.
Ok so this is a weird one. Bracc's last post was on 4/2/23, I'm a little fuzzy but I think that we found that he passed on 4/3/23. If not that exact date, forgive me; but the weird part of this is, my husband's best friend (and a dear friend to me as well) passed very unexpectedly on 4/3/24.
Maybe not really a connection, but something to make me think about this fleeting thing that is life. I swear only yesterday I was 26, single and (considered) adult for the first time in my life. Now I'm 56, worried about random aches and pains, and friends I've had for years are slipping away. Another dear friend is fighting prostate cancer, his wife is dealing with MS, my own husband has had some melanoma scares. But still we go on.
Cherish what you have today, for it may be gone tomorrow.
Okay I agree, having enjoyable vacations during one’s career years is a good idea. It’s easier for some and more difficult for others, but should be considered the fruits of our labor.Of my dad and my uncles, maybe one of them is having a chance to enjoy his retirement.
One died young-ish from an accident and possibly a doctor's incompetence. One seemed to be in good health and kept working well past typical retirement age to maintain a certain lifestyle, and not long after retirement he got some rough news from the doctor. One retired because of a condition that was making it difficult to get around and do things. And another is a butthead who loves to mock and shout at certain people so I don't talk to him anymore.
Pushing all your fun vacations, whatnot, etc. until retirement is looking like a really bad idea to me. Use your time off and have some new experiences.
This was my main rationale for retiring earlier than planned. Not a choice for most (including Bracc, it seems). I feel very fortunate.a chance to enjoy his retirement
Years ago I got a call from a friend whose husband had just retired. As they were preparing for their big post-retirement world travel, he became grievously and terminally ill. Her message to me: Don't wait!Pushing all your fun vacations, whatnot, etc. until retirement
Yup, same thing for me, retired two years earlier than my planned date.This was my main rationale for retiring earlier than planned. Not a choice for most (including Bracc, it seems). I feel very fortunate.
Years ago I got a call from a friend whose husband had just retired. As they were preparing for their big post-retirement world travel, he became grievously and terminally ill. Her message to me: Don't wait!
Hmmmm... while i don't disagree with the sentiment and the intent... i wonder...Bracc's situation was a little different. I'd like to see this thread closed and locked to honor the man so it doesn't go all over the place.
Bracc's situation was a little different. I'd like to see this thread closed and locked to honor the man so it doesn't go all over the place.