This is going to be one of those crappy answers that don't really address your questions; none the less it is worth saying.
As a previous poster mentioned, the great pumpkin pie aroma you get from a Pumking or DFH Punk'd is really from the spices, and the sweet and toasty flavors are all from the grains. The flavor from an undoctored pumpkin or butternut squash is really not that appealing. It just tastes vegetal.
I understand why you are torn. There is a fundamental issue with calling something a pumpkin ale when you completely omit pumpkin from the recipe. However, I'll give you two things to think about. Canned pumpkin in the mash is a documented disaster. In most suggested quantities, it makes sparging nearly impossible. Honestly, I never tried it myself, but read up on mashing with pumpkin puree and decide for yourself if it sounds like a fun time. I'll pass. I have personally tried baking puree and adding it to the boil. It was equally terrible. The trub was unreal, and that vegetal pumpkin flavor I mentioned earlier completely dominated the beer. It looked more like pumpkin soup than pumpkin ale. IIRC, I used 1 large can of Libby's, and it was 1 large can too much. From experience, I would advise against it.
That said, I strongly suggest finding a great recipe for a lightly hopped American amber or brown ale. The caramel and toasty notes in those styles would work great in a pumpkin ale. I would consider a blend of crystal malts in the 60-120 range for sweetness, and also an addition of a toasted malt (Victory, Aromatic, Biscuit) to capture the pie crust flavor. The only pumpkin I would re-consider adding is maybe a 1/4 or 1/2 of a small sugar pumpkin, baked, and just insert it gently into the already stirred mash (sugar pumpkin may be tough to find this time of year). I would also fish it back out before I started sparging. This way you can honestly say it was a beer made with pumpkin, but you are not relying on it to impart any flavor or a bulk of fermentables. After the boil is finished, add your spices to the wort, either in a hot whirlpool, or just steeped a few minutes before you turn on your chiller. Boiling the spices will completely blow off their aroma.
To recap - real pumpkin in process (check), sweet and toasty flavors (check), pumpkin pie aroma (check).
In fairness, I was kind of soured on pumpkin beers after one bad experience, but feel free to experiment as you like. Just make sure you update this thread with your results.
Good Luck,
Joe