You have a problem with reading comprehension. Nobody has actually answered the question as to how you “adjust” a number you dont know to get mash pH. You in particular posted a book quote that said “the initial water pH doesn’t matter, the mash pH does” and for some reason you take that mean “you don’t even need to know your initial water pH, it doesnt exist” as opposed to “it doesnt matter as long as you adjust it to the correct pH for the mash”.
You've gotten pretty fired up through the course of this thread and I'm not seeing the justification. People are trying to be helpful for the most part.
The simple answer is that the calculations for where a mash pH will end up for a given water profile (ionic content) and a given grain bill is very complicated. Software such as Brew n'water, Mash made easy, Brewfather, and others use formulas created by chemists.
RO and distilled water are essentially the same, almost completely devoid of salts. "We" know this because that's what RO filters are designed to do. I personally know this because I have an inline TDS meter on the output of my RO system and it reads a pretty consistent 6-7ppm (compared to the 400ppm going in). I have also sent my well water and the RO output water to a lab to test the ionic content. I don't think this part of it is anecdotal.
This is starting from a known water profile so the formulas I mentioned will work pretty well. It starts to get a little blurry when it comes to grain bills and their affect on the mash pH. There are thousands of different grains and the actual mash pH is going to be hard to nail down perfectly because even the acidity from one lot to another varies. Nevertheless, some assumptions are made for the sake of the software calculations and they do an adequate job of estimating what the pH will be if you load the starting water profile in correctly. For RO or Distilled water, the ionic content is zero or near zero. For those who do not want to source RO or distilled water, it's best to get a water test done so you know what you're starting with.
The reason why it SEEMS like people are dancing around your starting water pH question (and this has already been repeated several times) is that the ionic makeup of the water is the only thing you need to know. The starting pH is irrelevant and not the figure that gets manipulated. I mean it does indirectly, but the question of "how do you adjust your water pH?" is a bit of a trick question.
If you DON'T know what your water is, the only thing you should be adding to your mash is acid or base in response to a pH reading you don't like. Indiscriminately adding other salts is pissing in the wind.
TLDR: If you know your water's ionic content (which a Wardlab.com test or starting with RO water will both acheive), and you use software like Brewfather, it will very adequately estimate your mash pH for a given recipe. I know it's adequate because I also have a pH meter and it has been close enough for dozens of batches. After enough people agree with this as a true statement, even anecdotally, you eventually have to believe it enough to try it for yourself at the very least. Or not.