I'm a relative newbie but I do have 30 batches under my belt....so my advice/opinion is worth what you've paid for it
I've read about this before and have heard the arguement about wether or not when cold crashing down to lower temps from upper temps puts more CO2 into solution.
recently (~10 batches ago) I started cold crashing. I adjusted my sugar for the lower temp and felt (with my limited taste3 buds) the beer was under carbed. the past few batches I've used sugar based on the highest temp I ever had it at (4-5 oz per 5.5 gal batch). I've had no bottle bombs since about the p[ast 2-3 months.
also I don't believe that CO2 can be forced back into solution. sure it happens after bottling but that's aFTER INTRODUCING MORE SUGAR AND (damn caps) selaing the vessel. when you cold crash the vessel isn't sealed if there's still an air lock on it so I can't see the CO2 in the headspace being 'forced' into soluciton. in fact I see the air lock taking air into the carboy and that does have me worried at times :-s
I'd also like to know if there is a certain time limit that you're out of the woods on bottle bombs. I also put my bottles in a plastic rubber maid tub for 2-3 weeks at room temp to carb up before mov ing to basement. I figure it's the safest that way.