Here's my educated guess, as someone who studies microbes for a living:
It doesn't matter what form of N you add to your wort as yeast nutrient.
During the aerobic phase of rapid multiplication, the yeast are going to consume every molecule of assimilable nitrogen (including urea) for incorporation into protein and other N-containing biomolecules. This is because N is the strongly limiting nutrient (c.f. Liebig's Law of the Minimum) in a system that is replete with assimilable carbon and energy (sugars). Note that almost all of the urea will be consumed in the aerobic phase, before the yeast makes any EtOH.
It is only after the beer has attenuated and there are very few fermentable sugars left that the yeast start to catabolize en masse their proteins for energy, outstripping new protein synthesis. The decomposition of arginine, a common constituent of all proteins, produces urea, and this is the urea that reacts with EtOH to form urethane, and this only happens at the end of the fermentation. (Of course, proteins are constantly being broken down and reassembled in the cell, contributing a small background production of urea, but the cell would quickly reassimilate this N in situations where N was still a strongly limiting nutrient.)
Put simply: No matter what form of N you put in your wort, the yeast will eat it all up in the beginning, and then spit it back out as urea in the end, so don't worry about which additives you're using.
Edit: Now, limiting the AMOUNT of N you're adding will likely have an effect on how much urea you're getting out at the end, even if the form of N addition doesn't matter. But if you reduce N addition, you're going to reduce the yeast growth and fermentation activity, so I couldn't recommend that.