Sounds like you're drinking Maudite - a very smooth beer for 8 or 9%. One of my favourites.
I just finished trying a whole bunch of Belgian dark strongs and quads over the last week. From most favorite to least, I'd say:
St Bernardus Abt 12 (750 ml)
Unibroue Trois Pistoles (12 oz)
Delerium Nocturnum (750 ml)
Chimay Grand Reserve (750 ml)
Ommegang 3 Philosophers (750 ml)
Gouden Carolus Classic (12 oz)
Rochefort 8 (12 oz)
Unibroue Maudite (12 oz)
The first group (Trois Pistoles and St Bernardus Abt 12) both had a strong peppery/spicy aftertaste to clean up a sweet finish. Very satisfying indeed. The middle group had a sweeter or fruitier finish--I can see that being more appealing than the zing of the first 2 to a lot of people, including me if I'm in the right mood.
The last 2, the Rochefort 8 and the Maudite, both had really thin flavor and mouthfeel all the way through. They almost seemed like they were literally watered down significantly. I'm anxious to try both from another source to compare, but at the moment they're the only 2 beers from the Belgian strong dark/quad/strong gold/tripel spectrum that I just don't like.
Which is a little worrisome to me in particular since I've got a Rochefort 8 clone bottle conditioning at the moment.
Incidentally I also tried the Allagash Curieux (a bourbon-barrel aged tripel). It's pretty interesting, not my favorite but if you like oak it's well worth a try.