I travel for work. It's 100% travel. My wife is a stay at home mom. My wife had her sister watch our kid for the week. My wife was helping her mom after a mastectomy 24/7.
My sister inlaw drops my kid off at day camp all week and picks him up and he stays with her family all week too. Today, she drops him off for the final time, along with the overnight bag. Tonight I pick him up and the overnight bag.
I get him home... Half of my kids clothes that my wife packed are missing, so are his tennis shoes, his allergy medicine, his toiletries, his special night time stuffed animal, god knows what else.
This kind of $hit just pisses me off. I know their house, it's fvcking black hole. $hit just disappears there. The place is a clusterfvck.
Don't get me wrong I appreciate their help. But, it's like they don't care enough to pay attention to his belongings. He's young enough that he's not that responsible for his things much less able to pack a bag.
My wife is still with her mom and I have none of that stuff here, so tomorrow I have too go collect it or replace them. Collecting it means I have to find it wherever it might be in their home. They'd say it's here, I don't know where. I would be up to me to find them.