It is a personal subject, but I'm not ashamed of it. She forgot to pay taxes. Well, some people do, especially when they are young and careless and I would have still married her if I had known. BUT the IRS should have been trying to get the money earlier.
This are these stupid things that try to knock you off your feet and you need to be prepared for the unexpected. For some families it's a severe illness, for others the house burned down for us its a stupid mistake that a goverment agency did. Recently I have been reading Dave Ramsey's "Total Money Makeover" and I liked it a lot. It basically compares geting wealthy to loosing weight which only works when you learn to live on less than you make and are prepared for some big unexpected blows.
Kai