I really feel your pain. My scenario is very similar to yours:
Been brewing for a year and a half.
6 batches in.
Took an eight month break after batch three when work got too crazy and kid 3 was born.
Only one good batch so far.
But my problems are different than yours. My beer goes to **** in the fermenter, even with a proper pitch and a homemade fermentation chamber with a temp controller.
I won't give up if you don't!
I promise you cloudybrewer there will be no giving up here! Good beer shall be made by all!!! Only one good batch here and I'm still looking for a bigger used chest freezer so I can fit more carboys!