You are right (IMHO) that clear vs. hazy is mostly an appearance thing. I brew clearer beer now than I did when I first got into all grain, but the quality otherwise is largely the same.
Regarding cold crashing, if you ever do find a need to do it, there are options. If you use an S type airlock, liquid won’t be sucked back, but some amount of O2 can. I’ll be honest, I have done a lot of cold crashing and never had a real issue with oxidation. Could be that the beer didn’t sit around long enough for it to be a problem, but it’s not been a problem. I mostly keg now, but my bottling setup includes a bottling bucket with a spigot and dip tube with a small piece of mesh wrapped over the dip tube to keep hop particles out of the bottles.
There are a few other options for cold crashing that don’t allow O2 to be sucked in…one being a mylar balloon or something similar that is used in place or or in conjunction with an airlock that captures the CO2 during fermentation. Then when you cold crash, CO2 gets sucked back in instead. Someone sells one called the Cold Crash Guardian that includes a bag, a shut off valve and a check valve. I think it’s from Brewhardware.com? I have one and it works well.
Another option is a CO2 harvester which is two Ball jars with special lids and some tubing. This option works, but depending on your setup it can be a pain to move things around because it’s two jars and your fermenter that have to be moved. I have this setup as well, but I found a small wood box that I can hang on my fermenter so I can move everything at once (like in and out of my fermentation fridge).
You can see some options here -
7 Methods For Reducing Cold-Side Oxidation When Brewing Beer
Regarding attenuation, I have not used that particular yeast, but from what I know, it’s not uncommon for it to attenuate in the 80%+ range. Lallemand doesn’t appear to give a range like other manufacturers do (or at least I have not seen it) but rather use low, medium and high to specify attenuation. Are you experiencing higher attenuation for other strains/brands of yeast as well? Most of the yeast I use is within the range they show in their specs, but some yeast is more sensitive or adaptive to its environment than others and can over or under attenuate.