marley
Well-Known Member
You can do stuff, like force your musical preference on them, and they can't do anything about it.
Why are you guys posting pictures of your frikkin kids??? You think this guy doesn't have enough stress right now without you cramming your own kids down his throat? wow...
So many people get into this situation everyday and describe it as a mistake or some kind of life-ending fatal disease when in fact the end result can be something amazing.
Why are you guys posting pictures of your frikkin kids??? You think this guy doesn't have enough stress right now without you cramming your own kids down his throat? wow...
It can be amazing, but that's not always true. It depends on the person. Some people are just not good with kids or do not want them.
You are right, but he asked for advise in a homebrewing forum. Maybe there are professionals here that can give the best advice, but for adverage joes like myself, all I can do if offer my experience. If I offend anyone, especially the OP, I'm sincerely sorry. That's not my intent and if I did offend, just write it off as I'm an engineer and we're notoriously bad at social interaction.
Engineers: They keep us out of the limelight for a reason.You are right, but he asked for advise in a homebrewing forum. Maybe there are professionals here that can give the best advice, but for average joes like myself, all I can do if offer my experience. If I offend anyone, especially the OP, I'm sincerely sorry. That's not my intent and if I did offend, just write it off as I'm an engineer and we're notoriously bad at social interaction.
Engineers: They keep us out of limelight for a reason.
Heh. I think people get too easily offended these days. I find that offensive.
I think it's tough to advise this guy, because we are all coming from different set of experiences. And yes... age, finances, maturity, relationships, etc... are all factors.
My priorities are much different now then they were 10 years ago. Being married, owning a home, having a good paying job... I think I'm ready to have a kid. But 10 years a go? No.
Its simple; abort, go the adoption route or be a father. My advice was to try adoption since so many couples can't have kids. Its the most unselfish thing he could do for somebody.
You're right. I need a beer.No dog in this fight - but has anyone else noticed that the OP hasn't been back to this thread since he started it?
I was not certain if any slipped out, before pull out.
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So...At this point I am thinking back to the timeframe she is telling me about and I was like, wait a minute I know I wasn't the only guy she was with at that time. I know this for a fact, don't ask me how, I just do.
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So, I get to thinking that I am going to need to go to the med center to get checked out or something
Then I start thinking, I was pretty sure I couldn't even have kids... It hasn't happened yet and it definitely should have on MANY occasions. So what the hell gives?!!!?
I typed some big story here then deleted it because dude hasn't even been back to check anything.
You know, my dad always told me when I was growing up:
"don't stick your d!ck into anything you do not want to look at from across the dinner table for the rest of your life"
I could make a joke here about sheep-****ing. Your old man love seeing a nice lamb roast on the table?
slightlySo, what the hell do I do? I swear I don't live in a trailer, have a mullet, or shop at Walmart.
If she was visited by Aunt Flo after your last excursion as you claim, then it can't be yours. Of course, she could have been lying or mistaken about it.
The only judgemental and hateful person we encountered was the Right to Life wackjob protesting outside and handing out pamphlets with graphic pictures of partial birth abortions to the women entering and leaving the clinic.
Agreed. Those people really suck. So much for following the teachings of the religion that they claim to follow. "Judge not lest be judged yourself," indeed.
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