My Brother

[ScubaSteve]

Sorry to hear about this man...this is definitely a time that requires prayer.....we're all thinking of you and your family! God watch over your brother!

 

[SwAMi75]

Quick update...he's still in a coma, but his heart is working on its own now. Hopefully testing over the next couple days will give us some news one way or the other as to the condition of his brain.

I'm up here with family now. This has been especially hard on our dad...I've never seen him upset like this. But, at least we're able to deal with this together. This guy truly means to world to all of us.

Thanks once again for your support. I've found that as long as I'm able to keep talking and/or typing about it, I'm better able to deal.

 

[rdwj]

That sounds pretty positive. My brother was in a coma for a while after a car accident. He had a fairly long recovery, but he did recover. Hopefully things work out

 

[the_bird]

Keep strong, Swami. I can't imagine what you're going through right now. Stay strong for your dad and the rest of your family. We'll keep thinking positive thoughts.

 

[Yuri_Rage]

We're here for ya Swami! Sending positive thoughts your way....

 

[BierMuncher]

Any bit of good news is great news. Hang in there bro.

Your brother sounds like a great guy. Anytime you'd like to share a story or a pic...we'd love to know him better....

 

[Dude]

Damn bro....I just read this. Gonna give you a call today.

 

[Jekster]

Just keep positive man. I know it's hard at times, but it's the best thing you can do. Keep typing and keep venting your feelings. We're all here to listen.

 

[Brewtopia]

My thoughts and prayers are with your brother, you and your entire family. I lost my oldest brother a few years ago in a car accident. It is devistating. I will continue to pray for your brother's full recovery.

 

[Melana]

Keep strong and best wishes.

 

[mrkristofo]

Godspeed to all of you.

 

[fifelee]

Just saw this. Really hoping all is going well. My prayers for you and your family.

 

[SwAMi75]

After almost a week, his condition has remained unchanged. They ran another EEG to check out his brain yesterday, and we got the results this morning. No improvement--basically, flatline. The only form of life support he has been on for about 4 days is a respirator, and we made the decision to pull it at 2:30 this afternoon.

He has gone on breathing on his own since then. It's very labored, and his lungs are full of fluid since he's been on his back on a respirator for 2 weeks. Now we're just waiting for the best thing possible to happen: for him to die. I've reconciled myself with the fact that my brother is gone, and now I just want him to go peacefully. Right now it's all a bit surreal to me, but I already know there's going to be a huge crater in my life once I get back to "normal".

Dude would be the only person whom I'd talked to about Les, and he may or may not even remember. I've always told people about what an awesome guy my brother is......the best guy you could ever hope to meet. He has been the best friend I've ever had. He never had a good job or much money, or a lot of joy in his life. The guy just never got a break, and if any one person deserved the good things in life, it was him. That has always hurt me......and now, this. And I haven't even mentioned the fact that he's a single dad.....but that's for later.

Anyway, please hope for his speedy and peaceful passing for us. It's the best we can hope for at this point. And thanks for listening.

 

[Dinbin]

God Bless you and your family in these days of tragedy. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your loved ones.

 

[BlindLemonLars]

I read this thread last week, and have been checking for updates...hoping for the best, but halfway expecting the bad news you just shared. Swami, while I can't pretend to understand how you feel, my thoughts and condolences are very much with you. At least it sounds as though your brother is not in any discomfort, and here's hoping his exit from this life is peaceful and serene.

I'm not a religous person, and do not believe in an afterlife. However, I do strongly believe that people live on in the memories of others. Tell others what you can about Les, keep him alive in that manner. Tell US when you feel up to it. And above all, make sure his children know all about him. What kind of man their father was, and what he meant to you.

I'm so sorry.

 

[Ó Flannagáin]

I'm so sorry Swami. I watched my mother die at the young age of 45 about 3 years ago. I'm not sure what it's like to hear that a relative has recently passed away, but to actually sit and watch them take their last breath is unreal. My prayers are with you and your family. You guys will recover and life will go on; and your brother's memory will always be there.

 

[rdwj]

I'm really sorry to hear that SwAMi, I can't imagine how hard it must be to lose a sibling. Take comfort in knowing that he's in a better place now.

 

[Yooper]

I'm so sorry. When you told us about this, I kept hoping and praying for the best. I'll keep your family in my thoughts and prayers, especially his child(ren).

 

[LouT]

Sincerest condolences, so sorry about your brother.

 

[the_bird]

I'm so sorry to hear for your loss, Sam. My thoughts will be with you and your family.

 

[Ize]

Swami, I'm very sorry I missed this thread until now. My thoughts and prayers are with your brother and you and your family.

Ize

 

[BierMuncher]

God, bless your family.

 

[rod]

didn't see this until now
very sorry....not much else to say...

 

[Dude]

After almost a week, his condition has remained unchanged. They ran another EEG to check out his brain yesterday, and we got the results this morning. No improvement--basically, flatline. The only form of life support he has been on for about 4 days is a respirator, and we made the decision to pull it at 2:30 this afternoon.

He has gone on breathing on his own since then. It's very labored, and his lungs are full of fluid since he's been on his back on a respirator for 2 weeks. Now we're just waiting for the best thing possible to happen: for him to die. I've reconciled myself with the fact that my brother is gone, and now I just want him to go peacefully. Right now it's all a bit surreal to me, but I already know there's going to be a huge crater in my life once I get back to "normal".

Dude would be the only person whom I'd talked to about Les, and he may or may not even remember. I've always told people about what an awesome guy my brother is......the best guy you could ever hope to meet. He has been the best friend I've ever had. He never had a good job or much money, or a lot of joy in his life. The guy just never got a break, and if any one person deserved the good things in life, it was him. That has always hurt me......and now, this. And I haven't even mentioned the fact that he's a single dad.....but that's for later.

Anyway, please hope for his speedy and peaceful passing for us. It's the best we can hope for at this point. And thanks for listening.

I'm sorry to hear this Sam.

I certainly do remember you talking about Les. I always remembered it because of the "Les" connection. I also remember you talking very fondly of him.

If you need anything, please don't hesitate. I'm stuck on damn night shifts but I'll keep my phone around. If you need to let loose to someone, I'm hear for ya.

This is just a very unfortunate time for you and your family. I cannot imagine the pain.

Stay strong bro. Keep him in your heart always. Take all of Les's good and make it your own.

 

[PseudoChef]

We're all thinking about you. You know there's always a place here to share his memory.

 

[EdWort]

I just read the thready today as well. Man, Swami, I'm sorry to hear about your brother. Our thoughts are with you and your family.

 

[fifelee]

So sorry Swami. May happy memories comfort you and your family.

 

[Brewing Clamper]

Sorry to hear it Swami. My condolences. Keep him alive in your heart man.

 

[Yuri_Rage]

Swami, I tried typing this about 20 times, and the words continue to fail in expressing my heartfelt condolences. Kind thoughts and prayers for you and your family. Hang in there, man.

 

[jdoiv]

Swami,
Our thoughts and prayers go out to you and your family. Losing someone close to you is tough. I lost my brother-in-law about a year ago. It's still tough to deal with.
God bless.