Do you have a homebrew store near you? If so, go in there and just talk to the guys running the store. They will probably ask you some questions to figure out what you like or might be willing to experiment with, and then hook you up with something that works and fits your taste, in either extract, mini-mash, or AG.
I was mighty pleased to find out that the guys that ran the HBS near me were really well educated about beer, and passionate about it too. Enthusiasm is infectious.
You could also browse the online catalogs at More Beer, Northern Brewer, Midwest Homebrewing, or Austin Homebrew Supply.