At 1# per gallon, the blueberry flavor will not be noticable - the aroma will also be minimal, although you'll probably hove some heavy color contribution. Blueberries are described as a subtle-contribution fruit, so you'll want to stick to a higher inclusion than that (unless you're supplementing with an extract....the only way to get a "classic" light-color American blueberry-wheat beer).
Freezing both inhibits any wild yeasts or bacteria on the fruit, it also ruptures the cell walls, eliminating the need to crush. Adding thawed fruit to the secondary is low-risk, as the alcohol in the beer at that point should further inhibit and/or kill off any wild critters on the fruit.
If you want to use fresh, unfrozen fruit, invest in some Campden tablets for sterilization of your must and be prepared to crush it thoroughly.