I disagree. Regarding communication , this is a daily event. I can't tell you how many times I have stated the fact that "I really wish you wouldn't just randomly assign new homes to things. Or if you do, please tell me."
I hid her dumbells in the freezer a couple of weeks ago. She knew exactly why and we discussed it. I stated that I felt she was hiding my **** for no reason and I was going to return the favor. If she is doing this to teach me a lesson about being a slob, then tell me. Otherwise, please think before you do this.
Now she can have a little reminder as to how irritating it is to search constantly for something you didn't lose. Like I said, this is a daily issue. One that she will never admit fault to even when it is pointed out that she moved something and didn't tell me (Saran wrap was my fault because I should have just known.)
Her stuff stays hidden until she acknowledges what she is doing is wrong or she stops doing it.
All women are crazy (just to varying degrees). It sounds like you're with one of the crazier ones.
Women, before you get all defensive about my post I typed it because it's true. Just like all men are jerks (to varying degrees). We all have our shortcomings.