silvervan83
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My girlfriend was on vacation and when she got back she looked through the history and found brew babes. she is pretty p.o'd!!! any of you have this problem?
Look int K9 web protection if you want to block stuff like that. Is it a moral thing for her or a jealousy thing?
My girlfriend was on vacation and when she got back she looked through the history and found brew babes. she is pretty p.o'd!!! any of you have this problem?
I'd say the bigger issue is her reading through the history in the first place.
Ugh. Very, very bad sign.She went thru the history because she doesn't like me looking at porn, and when I admitted to looking at it while she was gone, she decided to check the history. And now she says "how am i even supposed to trust you on a homebrew website?" shes mad because she made pictures for me to look and says because I didnt look at those, Im not attracted to her.
We need proof of this. . . shes mad because she made pictures for me to look . . .
Ugh. Very, very bad sign.
Good point. I focused more on the pictures of her and the subsequent 'you don't find me attractive' stuff. That sends up red flags to me. If a man can only find one woman attractive, something is amiss.I dunno, not necessarily. My wife didnt like the fact that I looked at porn when we were first together. And the whole "you are looking at porn because you don't think I am attractive" thing is probably the #1 reason why some girls don't like their man looking at porn. It is definitely something that needs to be addressed, but just because she thinks like that doesn't mean she is crazy or that you can't have a great relationship with her.
I would tell her straight up though that you like it, are going to continue to do it, and that it has nothing to do with her looks. Something like 95% of men enjoy porn and I would say 99% of those men don't do it because they think their partner is unattractive.
I dunno, like i said, I had the same problem early on with my wife, and addressing it worked out quite well for me.
I would tell her straight up though that you like it, are going to continue to do it, and that it has nothing to do with her looks. Something like 95% of men enjoy porn and I would say 99% of those men don't do it because they think their partner is unattractive.
I dunno, like i said, I had the same problem early on with my wife, and addressing it worked out quite well for me.
She went Through the history because she doesn't like me looking at porn, and when I admitted to looking at it while she was gone, she decided to check the history.
And now she says "how am i even supposed to trust you on a homebrew website?"
Oh and if you need some porn..pm me
I'm positive that she'll find the airing of the laundry in a public forum will be equally refreshing.
This thread is gonna be googleable in a few hours.
Think Man.
This is why we cant have nice thingsOpps on my part. Closed that down. That should not have been public.
But really your girl gives you pictures of her so you don't look at pictures of other girls? Bizarro World.
+1
I had issues in the beginning with HWMO to some extent with this, and then I got the hell over it. Fact: men look at porn. She just needs to understand that, and you need to emphasize that HER pictures/videos/whatever are your favorite, but sometimes you've got to switch it up now and then.
Uhm, Brandon O, you know jmulligan's a woman, right? That should make her post have a little more sense.
Silvervan, this is the internet so I can say this easily; DTMFA! I had an ex that was the exact same way, would go through my history, see what I was up to online all the time. Also, she would call me at random to "check up on me", accuse me of various behaviors, and get very jealous about anyone I talked to with boobs. Oh and did she put out? HELL NO! Fun times, fun times.
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