Read this site in it's entirety.
How to Brew-John Palmer
This will give you a good idea of the process. As well as equipment needed.
Brew Ware is an older book, and while still useful, many of the stuff in there is available for purchase easily due to LHBS and the vast amount of online stores. (I don't actually own the book, I'm just going by Amazon.com reviews on this one)
Buying an equipment kit doesn't mean that you can never upgrade. You'll still use the stuff from the kit years into your homebrewing career.
Before you start making your own unique recipes that nobody else has done before. I suggest that you brew several tried and true recipes or ingredient kits. If you just jump in to recipe creation without ever brewing before, then you won't know if it's your recipe or your process that is at fault if it tastes like horse piss.
Basics that you will need to get started with extract brewing:
*Fermenting Vessel- you say you want a glass carboy. Go with one no smaller than 6 gallons. I prefer 6.5 gallons.
*Bottling Bucket- large plastic bucket with a spigot near the bottom
*Hydrometer- to check your fermentation progress
*Carboy cap- drilled rubber stopper works well too
*Air lock
*Siphon tubing
*Bottle capper
*bottle caps
*empty bottles
*sanitizing solution- I recommend Star San
*Thermometer
*Pot or Kettle for boiling wort- decide if you want to do full boils or partial boils
*Ingredients