Then your water profile/carbonation is wrong. I would say 80-90% of the best commercial IPAs in the world finish north of 1.010 and plenty close to 1.014/1.015. And that’s both soft/hazy and clear/bitter WC.
You definitely don’t need low finishing gravity to get hops to pop.
PH is incredibly important all the way through from mash to sparge, start of boil, end of boil, before dry hopping.
Gotta keep O2 exposure to the absolute minimum after fermentation is complete. Hops flavor and aroma are the first thing to go when the beer is exposed to even minute amounts of oxygen. Unless you’re kegging and have a conical that can withstand at least a little head pressure, that’s hard to do.
There's no "your" here. Not sure what you're arguing. There's a HUGE difference between 1.008, 1.012, 1.015 and 1.020. 1.020 is undrinkable in virtually all beer styles. Blech.
I'd put my HB IPA toe to toe with the best IPAs in the world. I was an IPA addict before they were trendy and i've spent a LOT of time figuring them out. I've made a lot of them that weren't great to test different methods (e.g. 100% whirlpool hops). It's definitely a sum of the parts but certain things help more than others. If you want something world class, by which i mean better than just about anything you'll get at your local craft brewery or buy on store shelves, you need to pay attention to the details. You can make hoppy beer easily, but to have it be something with the right mouthfeel, flavor, bitterness, carbonation and overall balance takes some attention to detail.
-100% RO water with mineral adjustment
-Simple grain bills with bland base malts
-Meticulous oxygen exclusion hot and cold side
-pH monitoring/adjustment in the mash, boil, and knock out
-Step mashing for maximum extract, attenuation and clarity
-Use of clarifiers and stabilizers
-Layered application of the freshest possible hops in various forms.... isomerized oils, non-isomerized oils, hop hash, pellets
-High yeast pitching rates
-Oxygenation of wort with pure O2
-Fermentation temperature control
-Spunding