I have had a dream to brew my own beer. I know you have learned lessons. I need advice to getting started and also want to avoid the mistakes.
I have lots of questions.
What do I do?
Where do I start?
These are the first 2 and most important also.
welcome !!
Where/how to start ...good questions.
What kinds of beers do you like?
what kind of work space or time available do you have ?
How "handy" are you?
I'm going to suggest doing a lot of reading . First book I would suggest is Charlie Papazians Joy of Home Brewing. Its a very simple ,well laid out introduction to home brewing,including ingredients, procedures and recipes to follow . He uses terms anyone can understand and also shows in illustrations what you can make and/or use that you may already own or find easily in a hardware store. I started out with a cheap Mr Beer kit but really I wouldnt suggest starting there.
Start out with an extract kit of the style of beer you like most, an 8 gallon kettle and small list of basic equipment- thermometer, hydrometer, 3 food grade 5 gallon buckets with tight fitting gasketed lids and spigots,a stainless steel long handled spoon, airlocks ,10 ft of 3/8" clear silicon tubing,unscented oxiclean or PBW ,a small container of star san and a couple cases of empty 12 oz brown longneck bottles (NOT twist off)a wing capper and a bag of oxigen absorbing crown caps .Relatively a cheap start that you can eventually and easily expand on.
See how that goes.
From there you can expand to a BIAB /AG method and again , use a pre-measured,pre-milled,printed instructed kit. See how that goes.
If the bug/addiction has hit you by then, by all means keep going.
If by chance its not for you , what supplies you accumulate could be sold to another beginner. This is where I insert the information that my best friend growing up gave me the kit I have and still use most of today. He never got around to using it between work and kids plus a divorce thrown in and it sat in his garage a few years before I went to visit him ,I saw it and commented on it. he said "here take it...I am more into drinking it than I am into making it."
I'm going to guess though that once that first sip of homebrew hits your lips , it will become a great hobby .