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My dad believed in "time out"... he'd beat my a#* until he got tired then he'd take a "time out"... But, I truly deserved every single one of them... :)
 
My mom would have killed me. Seriously i want to put that kids head through a wall....is that bad???
 
That kid looks like a mini Phil Hartman doing Frankenstein. He probably gets owned all day at school and take it out on his mom. No excuse of course. Let me guess, she's walking on eggshells because she feels guilty that dad walked out.
 
My mom would have killed me. Seriously i want to put that kids head through a wall....is that bad???

I would take his arm off and beat him with it. My girlfriend found this video, and I took one look at it and told her that if one of our kids ( we don't have any yet) did this, the last thing he would hear is " I put you in this world, I can take you out of it and make another one just like you, but better" And you can quote me on that....:mad:
 
I disagree: I would beat the kid's parents... this kid didn't turn out to be a disrespectful bag of crap by himself. He obviously had some help from good ol' mom and dad.

I do not beat my kids. I was beaten with a belt as a kid for doing almost nothing. I vowed never to do the same to mine.
Now I have 2 very well behaved kids (not just my opinion). If they do something wrong or disrespectful, they are punished by losing something: TV, Playstation, etc. If they do not pick up after themselves, they get a warning and then the items get sold, thrown out, or donated to a local charity. If they are out of line, they will have serious consequences... just not a wildly swinging belt.

I am not perfect, neither is my wife, but most behavior problems are from lazy parents... beating a kid is a lazy way of disciplining.

Woah! Sorry, time to get down from the soapbox.
 
Hello, Tommy won't be in school today. He seems to have developed a severe rash all over his body.
 
I will never forget the day I went into my dads shop while he was doing woodwork. I strolled in and asked him what he was up to. he grinned evily at me and showed me the paddle he was working on. Even had my name engraved on it.
 
r2eng- your dead on that the parents are mainly responsible. but i still think he needs a good smack...or 99.
 
It is ironic that his parents are responsible for that because you know if they had done their job and raised him with any kind of authority he wouldn't of laid a hand on his mother like that. That still doesn't make it right but I do find it ironic.

ps. this is why I am glad I don't have boys, if I did and that happened, I would have to come up some some elaborate story about him moving in with some relatives to a foreign country. :D
 
Its never too late to take corrective action.
My parents raised me quite differently than they did my little brother. I got my ass whooped when I got out of line. I knew my parents loved me and I wasnt constantly terrified by them. However, they did teach me about accountability and that there are real and serious consequences that accomponied some of the decisions we make. When I even thought about doing something wrong THEN I recalled the fear of god. Kept me on the straight and narrow.

My son has changed my world and I now know exactly what my parents meant when they said ',this is going to hurt me alot more than it is going to hurt you.' I do not look forward to handing out a spanking but it is for their own good, when used with great discretion of course.

:drunk: Im done
 
I disagree: I would beat the kid's parents... this kid didn't turn out to be a disrespectful bag of crap by himself. He obviously had some help from good ol' mom and dad.

I do not beat my kids. I was beaten with a belt as a kid for doing almost nothing. I vowed never to do the same to mine.
Now I have 2 very well behaved kids (not just my opinion). If they do something wrong or disrespectful, they are punished by losing something: TV, Playstation, etc. If they do not pick up after themselves, they get a warning and then the items get sold, thrown out, or donated to a local charity. If they are out of line, they will have serious consequences... just not a wildly swinging belt.

I am not perfect, neither is my wife, but most behavior problems are from lazy parents... beating a kid is a lazy way of disciplining.


While I do agree with some of this- We foud out that our 4yrld is one of the actual ADD kids. It seemed no matter how much I beat his ass. Hed do the same thing over and over. My big thing was he was mean to the animals.

We got him tested after it tested our marriage. They put him on low dose adderal. (aka riddalin). Now hes still extremely active but he says please and thanks, doesnt ever talk back and still wants to play alllllll day. I am sold on kids who actually need this medication.

As for this little ****bag- Hes does not respect his mother. I put the fear of God in my kids for ever disrespecting our their mother. I have yet to enforce it.
 
And then CPS comes a running ..

Want to hear a horrible CPS story.

A super close friend of ours just had to have her baby delivered via C-section because her kidney and liver started to fail. They couldn't figure out why, so while she lie waiting for transplant they called CPS to report her for drinking while pregnant.

After they got rid of that staff of Doctors they found out her pituitary gland was failing from a horrible accident she had years ago.

So they treated that and all good but she still had to meet with CPS after she got discharged to explain the whole situation.
 
I have 3 children I spank them from time to time (when they PUSH THE LIMITS) and Both my parents work for CPS. Its kind of a joak around here. My mother use to beat my a$$ witha wooden spoon that my dad made, I now have the spoon. I pull it out and use it for cooking when my mom is around. Oh its a big laugh.
"that little $#!T in the video NEVER would have gotten like that under my watch"
JJ
 
I have 3 children and I spank them when they CHOOSE it. My reasoning, passed down to me from my parents:

1. Disobedience is the ultimate no-no, if you choose it, you choose a spanking.
2. A spanking is not my choice, it's yours
3. I don't like spanking you but I have to do this, or I'd be a liar since I told you I would.
4. I love you. And that means I love you enough to teach you how to be a respectful, responsible person...even if it hurts me and you a little bit in the process.

That being said, I think that spanking has it's upper age limit. There are far worse things that I can do as discipline for my 9 year old...like taking away the playstation, laptop, gameboy advance. Spanking is never done to injure, but as a physical reminder of actions and consequences...like when you stick your hand in a fire. There are no tricks; the consequences have already been explained, and the line has been drawn. We never spank out of anger, and always make sure to explain why our kids are getting the spanking...mainly that it was their choice.
 
If you think that kid needed it watch this.

 
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I have 3 children and I spank them when they CHOOSE it. My reasoning, passed down to me from my parents:

1. Disobedience is the ultimate no-no, if you choose it, you choose a spanking.
2. A spanking is not my choice, it's yours
3. I don't like spanking you but I have to do this, or I'd be a liar since I told you I would.
4. I love you. And that means I love you enough to teach you how to be a respectful, responsible person...even if it hurts me and you a little bit in the process.

That being said, I think that spanking has it's upper age limit. There are far worse things that I can do as discipline for my 9 year old...like taking away the playstation, laptop, gameboy advance. Spanking is never done to injure, but as a physical reminder of actions and consequences...like when you stick your hand in a fire. There are no tricks; the consequences have already been explained, and the line has been drawn. We never spank out of anger, and always make sure to explain why our kids are getting the spanking...mainly that it was their choice.

Well said!!!

I only had to spank my son about 3 times. I was blessed with a good kid. If he was anything like me he would have gotten spankings weekly I did, and deserved every one of them

In my mind, kids like that are not just acting out but have a serious lack of proper parenting.
The first kid would have found that finger broken off he was pointing with, never mind if he smacked my wife. I am not really advocating breaking kids fingers it just made me mad.
The 2nd kid is on a fast track to a long series of jail terms. I hope he gets some help fast!
 
I'm sorry but the day my son slaps my wife in the face and tells her what's what his life will change drastically.

First, wouldn't hit him, hitting him I think would only teach him to hit when he's angry, so I'd punish his fat a$$ with good old fashion slave labor.

I grew up on a farm, my dad gave me my share of beatings, but none were more memorable than the hours of hard labor I did out in the fields to prove I was sorry.
 
Little SH!THEAD Needs a Leather Outfit...

Belt in the mouth.

Boot In the Arse.

He wouldn't sit for a week if he was my kid and did that to his mother. He would get a refresher Touch Up every day to remind him who is boss and how NOT to act.

Guess it's a good thing I don't have any kids eh? ;)
 
That kid looks like a mini Phil Hartman doing Frankenstein. He probably gets owned all day at school and take it out on his mom. No excuse of course. Let me guess, she's walking on eggshells because she feels guilty that dad walked out.

Haha, I agree on all counts. Either way that kid needs a man in the house to whip his ass into shape or the mother needs to step up to the plate. This kid is just another unfortunate addition to Generation Me...
 
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