seedavid
Well-Known Member
Is there a part of the sign that says MEN ONLY TRANSGENDER FOLK GO PISS OUTSIDE? If so I don't see it. What I see is a "cutesy" way of designating the restrooms not a damning of any group of people. I am genuinely curious how you get to these signs being transphobic because they have a penis and vagina as apposed to a M and W.
I'm pretty sure I've already said it twice, but I guess I'll say it a third time. The signs insist that only those with penises can be men and use the men's room, and only those with vaginas can be women and use the women's room. And, to be clear,
gender ≠ genitalia.
So the symbol on the door has a dick, in effect saying that that room is for people with dicks. And maybe you don't immediately recognize this, and only see it as cutesy because you aren't a member of the trans community. That's fine, but you can't discount the reaction a group of people has simply because you don't have the same reaction. You were born with the privilege of never having to think twice about which bathroom to use. Many trans folks don't have such an easy time, and for them, such a set of signs would be hurtful, and it can make them feel intimidated, unwelcome, and uncomfortable. Nobody deserves to suffer internal conflict about where they can pee when they're at a restaurant.
I think I've made my point, and if you feel differently, that's cool. I respect that. Go drink all of the Pro Pig beers, and eat all of their bbq. I sincerely hope that every drop and bite are delicious.