whelp! since this lacks replies I'll give you what info I have picked up. Souring is kinda a pain to do correctly, it takes a long time, and until you nail down the process you always run the risk of infections. With that in mind, if you do fermentation side souring, use dedicated souring equipment. This will keep your "clean" beers "clean". Secondly, your yeast and hop ibus need to be appropriate for sourings. Some yeasts dont handle low pH well, and lacto doesn't like hoppy beers. Lastly, read a lot. I found a ton of info here and online!
Now, how I usually sour. I have a 10 gal igloo cooler mash tun which I pitch my lacto into. I let the wort sit in it for a few days wrapped in a heated blanket and several other blankets. I keep a digital temp probe in the wort and try to keep it around 100 degrees for 48-72 hours. I have read you should keep it above 112 but below 120 because you will inhibit some bad bacteria growth without impacting your lacto strain. I've not tested this. You want a pH meter to check on the progress, but testing too often exposes it to bacteria. At the end of the 48-72 hours I boil as normal, killing the bugs but leaving the pH more or less in tact.
Good luck!