Pressure is pressure regardless of source. My point is that you are in effect simulating an enormous tank, larger than is normally used, by using that much pressure. The shape of primary tanks are much different than those used as secondary/brite tanks.
I experienced sluggishness as well at higher pressures... that's one reason why i went to blow off tube until closer to the end of primary. I don't think pressure is necessarily a good thing when strictly considering yeast.
I'm doing primary for ales in about 2-3 days and lagers in 7-8.
Not really. Pressure from weight is something you cannot change easily. Beer is going to weigh what it does. Professional brewers distinguish between the two, because they can control the pressure applied by CO2. Your experience and mine do not exactly mesh. That is okay! I don't see an issue with fermenting under pressures of 10-15 PSI during "primary" nor do I see an issue with bumping the pressure to 20+ to carbonate. I go grain to glass in 6-8 days. Shrug.