The problems surrounding BEVs, as I see them, are unrelated to the technology, driveability, usability.
The way I see it, the problems buyers encounter with BEVs now are FUD, infrastructure, and purchase price. I won't dive deep into FUD as this isn't Debate, but I will acknowledge it exists and there have been lots of examples of it here in this thread. Infrastructure, basically fast and publicly available charging, is something that has been improving and can continue to improve. Purchase price is also something that should improve as companies streamline their supply chains. My Bolt, for a new BEV, was pretty affordable. It was an example of a good BEV from a domestic brand that ended up to be under $30k (not getting into specifics on pricing). I would still say it was too expensive for a lot of people, but it (and maybe the Leaf?) are a testament to how companies can make good, affordable BEVs if they want to.
Agree on your first statement. For my next vehicle, the choice of BEV vs ICEV will not be based on technology, drivability, usability... At least not in any sense that disadvantages BEV. I think my next vehicle would preferably be BEV, all things otherwise equal.
Also not going to touch the FUD. It exists.
Infrastructure is a weird one. I'm increasingly coming to the [unintuitive] conclusion that a lot of fast chargers aren't the answer. They're naturally going to be the most expensive charging solution. Which means that they inhibit adoption because they negate some of the cost advantages to BEV. I think the answer might be fast chargers in remote areas [road trip stops], and ubiquitous slow (L1/L2) chargers everywhere else. They're cheaper to produce and require less power input to operate. I use my workplace parking garage as an example. We've got a bank of L2 BEV chargers on site. Well, if you're coming in to an office for 8 hours a day, you don't need L3 charging! Hook up your car for 3-4 hours, go unhook it and park elsewhere when it hits 80%, and you're likely good for the next 3-5 days. So I agree that infrastructure is going to be VERY important, especially for the people who for whatever reason cannot charge at home. But I don't necessarily think the future is a massive buildout of fast chargers.
Where I disagree a little more strongly is the idea that pricing should improve "as companies streamline their supply chains." I find this is an incorrect extrapolation of Wright's Law (aka the experience curve effect) that by definition, increasing production reduces prices through economies of scale and learned production efficiencies. This effect DOES exist, but I think it is believed by too many people to be MUCH stronger than it is. Ultimately price has a natural floor. Battery material cost, and battery energy density, which determines how much material you need. Obviously battery manufacturing / supply chain / etc is in there, but even if all of that was $0 you're still going to have a basic minimum material cost that CANNOT be recovered by any sort of Wright's Law efficiency gains. And it'll never be $0 anyway.
I'm not sure that you're claiming that Wright's Law or economies of scale will get BEV close to [or beyond] parity with ICEV just based on streamlining of supply chain. However it's a common enough misconception about how economics work that I feel it's worth a little bit of pushback. Ulitmately the battery portion of a BEV is expensive because batteries are expensive. Supply chain and manufacturing efficiency can improve that on the margin, but unless we improve the energy density of batteries or find less expensive materials to use to produce them, supply chain efficiency isn't going to get us from ~$115/kWh to $50/kWh. The experience curve effect just isn't that strong.