I'm not sure I understand you on the last part. If you don't have a kettle or cooler big enough to mash at least 6 lbs. of grain in, then I wouldn't even attempt this beer. A pure extract brew or a severly limited partial mash won't work. Partial Mash of 6 lbs. would be the bottom limit and even then you won't attenuate as much as all grain.
I have a 5 gallon kettle that is big enough to mash 6.5 lbs of grain, however I don't have a bigger kettle to do the dunk sparge. What I was asking was if I should just forget the dunk sparge or if it would work to add water to the mashed wort, heat it up to 168* and do the dunk sparge that way. If I should just forget the dunk sparge, maybe it would make more sense mash as much grain as I could with my 5 gallon kettle.
Also, at >2 quarts per pound of grain, you would need at least 3.25 gallons for the mash, so with a 5 gallon batch size, that would only leave 1.75 gallons for the dunk sparge.