I use 3 terminal locking mini-XLRs that have an alignment keyway that bisects two of the pins.
With over two dozen probes in various services I needed a standard of some kind, if totally arbitrary.
With the keyway at 12 o'clock and looking into the pin side of a receptacle I wire the top left pin to VDD, the top right pin to GND and the bottom pin to the signal.
I haven't seen many folks using the same mini-XLR connectors, perhaps as they are a bit pricey, even when sourced via eBay.
The current favorite termination seems to be RJ11's (which have their own arbitrary wiring scheme
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Cheers!