No need just buy their .5 micron stone with the male flare at the end of the stone, they were on sale at $14.24 each last fall. This allows one to add any length of SS tubing to fit your needs then just add a nut then flare the tubing.
As far as flow meters Timeter 0-15 LPM are the best value for the buck found on ebay at times in lots of 4 or more. Bottom line app $15 each. Do not waste your time on those small medical regulator / flow meters unless you have a supply of medical O2 bottles requiring medical papers to refill.
You can make a medical regulator / flow meter work by machining an adapter to fit a O2 CGA 540 fitting then use your welding bottle.
Cheaper plus better get one of these;
http://www.alliedhpi.com/images/z10-00-0101.pdf
BTW they have 1/8" NPT fitting inlet an easy connection to a standard welding O2 regulator set to 50 psi required by the flow meter.
You'll pay the lease long enough until you paid for the bottle but still not own it, get a small owner owned bottle, cheaper over time plus you can sell it when your done with it.
Check the past HBT forum Equipment/Sanitation section under "O2 Gauge & Flowmeter" thread dated 5-3-2010.