I'll chime in with my 2 cents (why not). I think the stildragon kit is the easiest route to go to meet what the OP wants. For safety, I'd also add a switch, just to be able to mechanically kill the power completely. Lowes Depot sells a switch that will work:
http://www.homedepot.com/p/Leviton-...ble-Pole-Switch-White-R62-03032-2WS/100356941
A single controller is sufficient, you can just unplug one element and plug the other in.
Its cheap, and does exactly what you want. You can use the excess money to:
1. Get GFCI protection. Spa panel is the cheapest route, AFAIK. There's a lot of threads that show how to wire it up. You can always ask if you have questions too. Do not run an electric brewery without GFCI protection.
2. Make sure the element is safely attached. See the BrewHardware site for a nice inexpensive option. I have the TC version and they are great, I'd guess you want the weldless nut/o-ring option. Its an easy way to ensure a good water tight, electrically bonded connection.
The only problem is with the stildragon option, it is sort of hard to upgrade from this route without starting over with the control panel. You haven't put much money into the control panel, though, so that's probably alright.
I'm happy to help if you have any questions about how to wire anything up.
edit: I'd stay away from random amazon/ebay stuff unless it has been vetted by users. There's too many stories of counterfit breakers, SSR's, etc out there. Some dude in texas got arrested a while back for counterfitting breakers that were shown to be dangerous. Get equipment from reputable dealers, or ask on here if you aren't sure.