Steelers77
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I like you ubermick!
We have a couple friends that are just "kid friends". You know, people you hang with only because they also have kids. Not that they aren't nice or anything, but 90% of them are people I wouldn't hang out with normally because we don't share common interests. The point being that having kids doesn't mean you'll have meaningful friendships with people. If anything, I sometimes dread seeing them and having to pretend to be someone I'm not just so conversation isn't awkward. One couple is LDS, so I can't even tell them I brew.
Here's a suggestion that nobody has made yet: Get a dog. (If it fits in your life, of course.) It's a great catalyst for meeting new people. Walk it in your neighborhood, or go to dog parks... That's how my 'swmbo' and I have met all our new friends after moving to a new area.
Hope that helps...
We have a couple friends that are just "kid friends". You know, people you hang with only because they also have kids. Not that they aren't nice or anything, but 90% of them are people I wouldn't hang out with normally because we don't share common interests. The point being that having kids doesn't mean you'll have meaningful friendships with people. If anything, I sometimes dread seeing them and having to pretend to be someone I'm not just so conversation isn't awkward. One couple is LDS, so I can't even tell them I brew.
I second joining a homebrew club.
I will be going through a similar situation. I am moving down to Arkansas knowing nobody for my first real job. I have already searched for homebrew clubs and there is only one in central AR (2 hours away) and nothing on the meet up site, who knows Ill figure it out eventually
The sad thing is, I work from home so can't even meet people at the office. So far, the few people I've met around here have been fellow brewers. I agree with spending more time with the wife tho... although after all this time, that's starting to wear thin...However, I am spending much more time with my wife and kids, which is a good thing. And I am attending the local homebrew meetings here.
I have only been here about three months and still do not have any new friends besides work people.
Slightly late in the reply, but .... color me jealous! I've been wanting free welding lessons for years! I'd gladly be the brew mentor in exchange! (best Napoleon Dynamite voice) Luckeeeee!I actually did make not just a friend but a welding instructor and brewing mentor on here, who lives an hour up the road in Sebastapol.
You don't mess with a mans dog ...ever!
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