Sheesh, not a lot of love for real estate agents here...
Speaking as one, for the love of god and all things holy get representation.
1. Depending on what state you're in, there are anywhere from 75 to 120 SEPARATE steps that need to happen between inking the contract and getting the keys. That doesn't even consider the negotiating. You have a day job.
2. You know the seller personally. Your agent will be able to give you a needed perspective, and won't BS you to save your feelings.
3. It doesn't cost you anything to get quality representation. The seller pays the 6% on the understanding that half of that is going to the agent that brings the buyer.
4. Everything is negotiable. Your agent signs a contract to represent you, and is bound to serve your best interest
I would recomend contacting a bunch of buyers agents in your area and interview them. grill them on what their "list to sell ratio" is and their sales volume.
Once you pick one, your neighbor can either find an agent to represent her, or YOUR agent can refer her to a friendly competitor from a different office.
A good agent is worth their weight in gold. Unfortunately, I have
never met one. I hear they exist but never encountered one.
I tried personal recommendations from others a handful of times with little to no luck. They all give you the same one liners "I'm not the pushy type" but most expect you to sign a contract after a half dozen houses. And then, they insist that you use their home inspector who turns a blind eye to the deal killers.
As for 75 to 125 steps - If you can successfully brew a batch of beer, you can follow instruction and diy in 8 easy steps.
- find the property that you are interested. Check.
-write a contract, have it reviewed by an attorney and give it to the seller.
-Negotiate if necessary. Hard for some, easy for others.
- Arrange financing
-arrange necessary insurance
-Meet with inspector and go over property
- the bank guides you through the rest
-show up for closing
As for the 6% being paid by the seller, why not say hey seller, as you know, an agent will end up costing
you 6%. Lets do without and split it down the middle. Incorporate this into your offer price. Its a win-win.