So despite being a lover of all things DIY (I have half a boat engine and an outdrive in my garage, despite me not having ever turned a wrench on a boat before last week), I'd have to say go pre-built. You've already got a huge DIY going on, and you've got a lot going on in the personal / professional world. If you work hard and make good money, some times it's worth it to pay a little bit more to make life easier for you. Could you build it? Sure - even with basic wiring knowledge, you'd have the help of the board and a wiring diagram and you'd be golden. It might take a few days, or weeks, or even a month based on other comittments though.
Spend the extra few bucks, get a panel you know works, and you can start brewing NOW. Plus, you can invest the time you would have spent on the panel into finishing the last few bits of the brewery - those parts that we always put off... otherwise 5 years down the road you'll have a hand-built panel and still no grout on the tile because it got put off and put off and eventually... 'eh... who needs grout...' - at least, that's how long drawn-out projects seem to go for me.
So I'd have to cast a vote, in this particular scenario, for spending the extra few bucks, saving yourself a ton of time and headache, and finally get the point where you can start turning water and grain and hops into beer!
-Kevin