You guys are using 3 to 4 pounds to initially carbinate the beer in the keg, but how much do you use to bring it out the tap? I am new at kegging.
In general you're best off serving beer at the same pressure you used to carb it (so that you're not constantly having to turn it up and down to serve/maintain carb level, plus many people report foaming problems when they serve at a lower pressure than the beer is carbed to). To do that with a hefe, soda, or other highly carbed beverage, you'll just need sufficiently long beer lines (or you can use the
mixing sticks linked to in the post above this one, those have worked well for me with sodas). As far as how long the beer lines would need to be, that depends on what type of tubing you're using and to a somewhat lesser extent on other factors (for example vertical rise from the keg to the faucet). If you search for "beer line length" you'll find lots of threads on the topic.
My anecdotal experience: I use
Accuflex Bev-Seal and have had good luck using ~18 feet for beers at 2-2.5 vols, ~ 22 feet for a wheat beer carbed to 3 volumes, and ~ 40 feet for soda at 35 PSI at 38 degrees (off the
carbonation chart but presumably 4.75-5 vols). I started with those lengths after doing lots of reading in various threads including
this one, and have been totally satisfied (with one exception -- I had to add mixers to my rootbeer keg dip tube b/c unlike other sodas my rootbeers kept over-foaming even with a 40' tube length). If you use standard beer tubing, you can use much shorter lengths -- I've only ever used Bev-Seal so I can't comment from experience on how much less.