There are a lot of variables that should dictate how you do this. For starters, lacto doesn't do well with higher alcohol contents or with higher IBUs, so people tend to pitch lacto very early on, either alone before sacch. or with sacch. at the start. That doesn't mean it won't do anything to sour your beer, but it might take a very long time, and it might not work at all. I pitched the WL berliner weisse blend (lacto + sacch.) into a wort with only ~4 IBU and 1.026 OG, and after 6 months, its still not very sour at all, which I've heard is somewhat common.
For the brett, just pitch the Wyeast pack that they give you, no starter or anything. I usually rack to a secondary and then pitch the brett. However, you want to make sure the brett has some good residual sugars to chew on. So what was your FG? If it was fairly low, you won't get a ton of brett flavor. If it was a bit higher, like 1.01 or higher, you should get lots of nice brett funk/flavor. You could also pitch some additional sugars for the brett to chew on. Fruit is always a great addition when pitching brett for a secondary. In terms of time, that can vary for a brett secondary. I've had great ones after one month and some took several months. If you pick the right fruits to add at brett pitching time, you can actually get a combination of brett funk and a bit of tartness from the acids in the fruit. It won't be like an all-out sour, but it will be very nice and have some sour qualities.