That's a pretty broad brush stroke of an idea, but not undoable...
Off hand, I'd start with something rather hearty and bold flavored, like a robust porter, scotch ale, barleywine or similar.
Adding honey will thin out the body, so you might consider mashing high if doing all grain, or adding an extra half pound of crystal malt if just steeping specialty grains with extract. Also, I'd recommend adding the honey late in the primary as fermentation is starting to slow down...this will help preserve some of the honey aromatics, but it would still also be best to use a stronger flavored honey (a darker wildflower, orange blossom, or even a small amount of buckwheat honey) if you really want a strong honey flavor/aroma.
You can get plenty of bourbon and oak flavor by taking your favorite bourbon and soaking some oak chips in it for a few weeks while you're brewing/primary fermenting. I find that about an ounce of bourbon soaked chips dropped in the beer (I use a muslin sack to contain the chips and/or spices) for about a week after primary finishes is a good starting place. If you still want a stronger flavor, you can either leave the chips in longer, or incrementally add some of the bourbon that the oak soaked in (be careful with this...a little goes a long way!) In terms of vanilla, 1-2 beans cut and scraped and added in with the oak chips should be good. When it comes to adding flavors, YMMV, so it's best to start smaller and add more, because you can't take it out afterwards....
Good luck!