In your circumstances I would not cold crash. I prefer to cold crash when I have the time to plan ahead, but in a dark Belgian it's not likely to matter taste wise. In fact if your sanitizing processes are less than stellar pitching the whole starter has the advantage that the yeast are active and will outpace any stray bacteria.
Some brewers never cold crash, it's a legitimate technique, but there are pros and cons for both methods.
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This is the best advice at this point for this situation. DO NOT cold crash or decant the starters! You need all the yeast you've got to pitch into those 2 large beers.
I hope you're still going to dilute the 1.090 to 1.072 or so.