Let me frank. The fact there you tell me you have a 32 amp 110v coil tells me you are in trouble. There is no way the coil of that contactor is 32 amps. That coil is probably around 0.100 amps. The contacts are what are 32 amps. The coil and the contacts of a contactor/relay are electrically independent of each other.
When it comes to contactor/relay coil, the two specs you have to get right is the voltage (5 volts, 12 volts, 48 volts, 110 volts, etc) and the type AC or DC. If you do not match the current source spec and coil spec you are in trouble, like buzzing relays.
Your schematic does not show the contactor coil. I cannot follow the text description in your reply.
I wrote a user guide for a relay board a few years ago. Most if what is in here does not apply to your build. Maybe the first fee pages will be if some help.
https://www.homebrewtalk.com/threads/sainsmart-relay-board-user-guide.523263/