Because it is a kit wine? or simply because? I don't make wines from grapes and have never bought a kit but I don't stabilize my fruit wines for many months and have never had any problems... As long as the wine fills the carboy right up into the mouth I cannot see that there will be any problem allowing it to age under bung and airlock... But you seem to be suggesting that there may be an issue.. Certainly , if something does go amiss, and sbhank has not followed directions then the kit manufacturer is under no obligation to refund any money... but it is not self evident - at least to me - what problem there could be in simply aging the wine longer than the manufacturer of the kit suggests...
Bernardsmith, these are all valid points, but my comment
I wouldn't leave it for 4 weeks without stabilizing it with meta
is based upon the fact that if your wine has finished fermenting and no long producing CO2 that protects the wine from oxygen, you stand a far greater chance of spoilage then if you would have stabilized the wine. I understand that you do not stabilize for months and haven't had any issues can be attributed to many things, one of which may be that the wine is still releasing co2.
I've had a wine that I forgot about, I had placed the carboy in my cellar and someone placed a few boxes just close enough that I didn't see it for a month, it was topped up, but unfortunately as soon as I saw the carboy, I noticed the white ring around the neck of the carboy and knew that mycoderma had taken over. This leads to another issue, as a brand new wine maker, the original poster might not know what to look for, but not being there, there isn't a chance to be proactive.
I'm not saying that all wine will spoil within 4 weeks if not stabilized, I'm saying that it can, it has nothing to do with it being a kit, vs fruit wine, vs juice bucket vs fresh grapes, nor is it a matter of a refund or aging it longer than the manufacturer recommends -I highly recommend aging it as long as possible, I'm just trying to give the best advice that I can, and that is I wouldn't leave a wine for 4 weeks without stabilizing it, but since the wine hasn't even finished fermenting it looks like it will be on auto pilot.
Let us know how it works out.