I can't remember what I paid for the copper tubing. It's been about 19 years since... I'm sure copper has gone up significantly. I notice a lot of people using 25 ft instead of 50 ft...that's likely due to the high price of copper now. Will still work...just take a bit longer is all.
You've got the perfect arrangement. Big primary, 5 gal secondary. I finally got smart and did that a couple of years ago. Makes managing that big krausen a whole lot easier. If you can...that yeast loves 65 - 68 degrees...
Wyeast 1098...hmm letme see... NO WAY? That is MY personal favorite!! I can tell you're going to make Great Beer!!! I make all my IPA's, Stouts, & Bitters with that yeast. It clears nicely...the yeast does not detract even one tinsy bit from the flavors of the beer. When you go to take your final gravity reading...drink the contents of the hydrometer cylinder. That yeast is so clean...you'll be drinking the beer and loving it before it even gets to condition. As a matter of fact...I had a Bitter that I made once...that was at peak right out of the secondary (8-10 days in primary, 10-14 days in secondary @ 68 degrees F) Unfortunately, the Styrian Goldings (hops) started to loose their punch after a couple of more weeks.
If you buy the Activator pack...you'll be fine pitching into 5 gals. If you buy the smaller Propagator packet...you'll need to make a starter.
As far as yeast starters go...
You can use a flask or a 16 oz beer bottle...
Put about 10 oz of water in a pot and boil...
Add 3-4 TBSP of Dry Malt Extract (DME)...
Pour into the flask or bottle and chill to 80 degrees F (65-80 degrees)
Pour in active yeast culture
Put a stopper and airlock on the flask/bottle
Let sit overnight
This works well for Ales. Largers usually get built up a bit more...they grow slower at lagering temps ~ 45 degrees F.
If you think of it... keep a sterile bottle and bottle cap during your brewing. Before you pitch your yeast...if you fill the bottle with wort, cap it, and stick it in the fridge for safe storage...you'll have the perfect solution for making your next Yeast starter. Make sure you label it...so nobody drinks it thinking it's a beer

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I like to chain brew with the 1098. I discard the trub/dregs from the primary...but on the day I'm going to bottle/keg from the secondary -- I make another batch of beer. Swirl the yeast dregs around on the bottom of the secondary after you've siphoned off the beer...and pour into your freshly made wort in your primary carboy. It will ferment even faster with the new stock of fresh yeast. And your recipe will be less expensive, because you don't have to purchase another yeast packet.
You can also save some of that dreg beer from the bottom of your secondary...and bottle it. Keep it refrigerated. It's will settle to form a nice yeast cake in the bottom. Then the next time you want a starter. Decant most of the beer off that yeast cake...and put an airlock on it. Meanwhile...drain some of the wort that you saved from the batch earlier in a sterile bottle. Put a clean stopper on it and shake it up really good to disolve some oxygen into it. Now lift the airlock on the yeast cake bottle and pour some of that freshly shaken wort into that bottle, swirl around to get the yeast up into solution...and replace the airlock. In a day or two you'll have another starter ready for another batch of beer. If you ever notice a change in flavor...discard your yeast strains...and start over with a fresh culture from Wyeast.
Hope this technique will save you a few bucks to put toward other ingredients...
You might hold off on that until you're convinced that it's the yeast you like...by experimenting with different yeast. But I'm very happy with it for those beer styles I mentioned.
I don't usually add yeast nutrient in an all-grain beer. I use it primarily for making MEAD. It won't hurt to put a little bit in though. It seems to reduce off flavors in some yeast strains. But I don't think the 1098 will have a problem without it.
I used to use Irish Moss in the boil kettle...I now mostly use Whirfloc (?) ...it helps significanlty with the cold break, coagulating out extra proteins.
Cheers