"since i got the virtuoso i think my coffee pot (the 12 dollar mr coffee) isnt working. Grinder is set on 15 with inside adjustment fine as well. I think it is flowing up and out basket and through body into pot weak ( at least not on floor) anyway wth. Any thoughts? And now the cheap delonghi isnt pulling shots either. They are saying descale it, prime pump, i wonder if its just shat"
One of the first things done when servicing an espresso machine (after testing for 'short-to-ground', is to check the 'water debit'. A pitcher is placed under the water flow from the group (without the portafilter) for a timed 10 seconds. If the water collected is over 2oz the pump is generally good and there is little restriction in the water lines. If the 'water debit' is below 2oz there is a problem with scale buildup or the pump is weak (or needs to be primed).
Your problem may be due to setting the grind in reference to a 'number' on the grinder. A darker roast ground to a specific 'number' will be different to a medium roast ground at the same 'number'. As the ambient temperature or the humidity changes, so will the setting of the grinder need to change. As the coffee ages daily, the grind will have to change.
Good espresso is a moving target, a competent barista will check the grind many times each day and adjust as necessary. The grinder, for espresso, is set by the timing of the shot, not by any number printed on the grinder.
The grind, for brewed coffee, is usually similar to the coarseness of sugar. If you grind too coarse the coffee will be insipid and too weak. If you grind too fine the coffee will be excessively bitter. Small changes in grind will cause large changes in taste. One of the problems with domestic drip brewers is that most of them operate at too low temperature, this cannot be corrected by changing the grind.
It sounds like you are grinding too fine (overflowing basket in brewer and no espresso output). If your 'water debit' is OK, try grinding progressively more coarse until you get a 2oz double espresso , in ~25 seconds.
TerryM