When I brew the kits, I typically make sure I get every last drop of LME and as much DME as possible out of the packaging. I usually start with about 6 gallons of water which ends up boiling down to less than 4.5 gallons of wort. I then top up the cooled wort to the 5 gallon mark on the primary bucket. So, I would think that my volumes are pretty close each time.
I guess part of this also has to do with how far off the target OG a person would have to be to really notice it in the final product. The most recent kit I brewed is the NB Caribou Slobber with a target OG of 1.052. If a person was able to get all the DME and LME in the mixture it would be interesting to know how far off, either over or under, you'd have to be with the volume of water to significantly change the OG.
The first few batches I did a couple of years ago, I tried measuring with the hydrometer, but it seemed to not stay centered, so I wasn't sure how accurate my readings were. Then I figured that measuring would really only confirm if I followed the instructions properly since I didn't know enough to correct any readings. After that, I stopped measuring, but before I start a new batch, I always wonder if I should buy a refractometer to do the measurements. Recently, I've spent the money on being able to boil a larger amount, oxygenate the wort (Williams kit), trying to better control fermentation temps (Craigslist mini-fridge, built a STC1000 temp controller, etc) and yeast starter/stir plate. I guess next on my list will be a refractometer.
Ron