I had your jalapeño/mango hard lemonade a year ago or so and I was pleasantly surprised at how good it was. Great jalapeño flavor but no heat.Years back I added Jalapeno to a Hard Limeade. Then used the same bucket for a PA. The jalapeno came through in the PA and was the best I've made. Did you add the white flesh and seeds? That'll do it heat wise.
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