Varmintman
Well-Known Member
Divorce sucks. It just does. And when children are involved, the suckitude never ends. Laws vary widely from state to state. But all it takes is one party in the divorce with a bitter and vindictive attitude to make every possible part of the process a living hell for as long as possible. I've been divorced for almost 20 years, and although much better, every contact with the other party is still turned into a nightmare.
+ 1 from me. I know I tried to take the high road and gave her everything she wanted except my daughter. I finally put my foot down when a year after the divorce was final she came over to pick up my daughter for the weekend and saw the new microwave I had just bought the week before and wanted it.
Point being while it is all just stuff at least for me in my case I needed to say enough I am not walmart.
In the end it is the kids that matter. Remember you might be divorcing their mom but they are not. Sucks I know and I got 4 more years till my kid is 18 and I will have nothing more to do with my ex. But until then I suck it up and brew more beer.