I added a capful of standard McCormicks vanilla extract to my last Pumpkin Ale at about 4.0 gallons, and it was slightly too much. I ended up adding about 1/2 gallon of an amber ale to cut it just a bit, and it turned out fantastic. About a capful of vanilla extract per 4.5-5.0 gallons should be perfect.
For a pepper flavor, consider making a tea out of crushed Grains of Paradise instead of straight pepper. The pepper flavor from Grains of Paradise is much more complimentary to beer than actual pepper is, IMO. I use about 2 grams crushed (like pulverized) in a good bit of my Hefewiezens. You can literally crush them up, throw them in a coffee filter in the coffee maker, and make 4 cups of Grains of Paradise tea, cool it slightly, then just dump it into the keg and give it a few gentle swirls.
Good luck!