In a perfect world, 14% is the equivalent of 14/131 = 107 gravity points of sugar. Add to that how sweet you want it to be, let's say 10 points (medium sweet) which says you want 117 total gravity points (a starting gravity of 1.117). So, the yeast consume 107 and leave you with 10 for sweetness. Honey is about 35 gravity points per pound per gallon, so .117/.035 says you need 3.34 lbs of honey per gallon.
However... this is not a perfect world. Yeast don't magically stop right on the published tolerance number. And honey can range from 34 to 38 points per pound per gallon.
The way to get predictable results is to mix up the batch for 1.107 starting point, let ferment as far as the yeast will take it, then back sweeten with honey to 1.010 at the end after stabilizing with sulfite and sorbate.